Co-Host Mike Domitrz (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/respect) It seems whenever you turn on the tv or get on social media, someone is complaining again because they feel disrespected. Often the context is men and women feeling slighted--or even wronged--by the other gender. So how about it...do we have a respect problem between men and women nowadays? If so, what contributed to that? Well, my returning guest Mike Domitrz (rhymes with 'Amish') is no respecter of persons when it comes to one gender's claim of disrespect over another. Instead, he respects EVERYONE, and the first order of business in this episode is to explain WHY. And yes, you can indeed rest assured that this is not going to be another man-bashing parade. In fact, it's quite the opposite. By the end of this episode you'll not only emerge empowered to respect women without getting bulldozed, but also BE respected by those very same women. What's reasonable for a man to expect in terms of sexual respect from a woman? What is the one tendency in human nature that absolutely has to be curtailed in order for there to be respect? And what positive trait should that negative one be replaced with? How should we handle an interaction, with a woman on a date or otherwise, if we're not feeling respected? Has the rise of effective birth control cheapened sex, and therefore fomented an entitlement attitude toward it? What ever happened to the idea of 'tolerance'? What are Mike's thoughts on how alcohol/drugs contribute to lack of sexual respect? Can we as men, like women, revoke consent if we decide 'maybe not' in the moment? How? Should you feel shamed for not wanting to date trans women? How do we respectfully ask someone their pronouns if we're unsure they're even non-binary or trans? Get in on this month's Masterclass For Men at https://mountaintoppodcast.com/masterclass
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Co-Host Polina Solda (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/pyramid) The term "Mr. Right" is typically used by women, isn't it? But let's face it, if you're a man who wishes to deserve what he wants, that means in order to get the woman who's right for you into your life, you're going to also have to be the man who's right for her. My returning guest is dating coach for women extraordinaire Polina Solda, who brings back both her considerable wisdom and her Russian accent for your listening pleasure. And in the long and storied tradition of Russian straightforward opinion, she begins by--in her words--"destroying" the biggest myth out there when it comes to being "Mr. Right". Next, she presents the toolkit she uses for determining personality and relationship style, especially as it pertains for gaining insight into the kind of partner we are most attractive to and compatible with. Interestingly enough, it was developed by the Soviets, and therefore practically unknown to the Western world. So what does Polina have to say about the American man's fascination with Russian women? When they're actually "Ms. Right" for a certain guy, could it usually be for unexpected reasons? Both Polina and I firmly believe that the right relationship shouldn't feel like work. Listen in as Polina gives that somewhat controversial concept a whole new dimension. And that said, how should men and women be similar or different in a good relationship? I mean, do likes or opposites attract? Get in on the latest Masterclass for men and talk to me free for 25 minutes when you visit https://mountaintoppodcast.com
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Co-Host Elliott Katz (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/katz) My returning guest is the author of several books for both men and women on relationships, especially pertaining to long-term success. He's the right guy to help cover an important topic that has been on my radar screen for a long time now, which is being the patriarch of one's family. What does that even mean? And does it necessarily have to be tied to the negative Feminist stereotype of 'The Patriarchy'? Could it be that most red-blooded women really WANT you to be the leader of your family...even your extended family? We know men should provide and protect, but what is the caveat to that if you really want to be respected by your family? Why is it so many men can be leaders at work, but fail at being the leader at home? As it turns out, there are undeniable traits and characteristics of a true family patriarch. What are they? On the other hand, how do perfectly good, decent men take themselves out of the running for being the family patriarch, even if unwittingly? Finally--and importantly--why should a man even WANT or CARE to be the patriarch of his family...especially if he's still way too young to even think about it yet? What's in it for him? By the time this episode is finished, you'll stand up and cheer. You'll feel believed in, for once...and emerge with quite a bit of third-party validation that what we talk about here at X & Y Communications really, really works. Get in on the Masterclasses, the new program Un-Settled and talk to me for free for 25 minutes when you visit https://mountaintoppodcast.com
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Co-Host Robbie Kramer (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/kramer) 'Instagram has become such a phenomenon in dating, that if you're a single guy and not using it, it's really, really hard to compete.' That's a quote from my returning guest and dating expert Robbie Kramer, who has enough social media expertise to know. But wait a minute, is this about competing with thousands of other schmucks for the attention of bikini-clad IG 'influencers' with hundreds of thousands of followers? Truth be told, it's more about YOUR Instagram posts. And even if you don't have thousands of followers, there's a right way to use the platform, and it's counter-intuitive for most men. The hint there is attempting to use Instagram as a dating app in and of itself would usually be a HUGE mistake. So then, what should you do with IG instead? What can a man do to break through all the noise on Instagram and get the right attention from the right kind of women? How do you use it to build your social circle and your personal power, not just get more dates? Wait until you hear Robbie's super smart way to find out who the women are you really, genuinely are into you...just by posting the RIGHT things to Instagram. As if that wasn't enough, his unique strategy on what to actually do with all of your new female friends on Instagram might blow you away. Check out the Masterclasses, link to the newly-updated YouTube channel and more at https://mountaintoppodcast.com
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